Short guys can get dates just as easily as tall ones. We have all seen shorter men on dates, or in a relationship. Some might look at these lucky men and think that the men with the women has some secret.
They do have something, but it is not a secret. They have many things working in their favor, because they worked to make it that way. Just like all men, these apparently lucky short men know that all men have to deal with the same problems in finding dates. The only problem for some shorter men is that they think the problem of their height means it is harder for them to get dates.
These guys understand that their height is something that is not under their control. Each of these men knows that getting a date is about being the best man he can be.
This can actually be an advantage. A taller man tends to capture the glances of women when he walks into a room. He gets a lot of attention. As a result, he figures he does not have to concentrate on his other attributes. He might get to talk to a woman faster than a man of smaller stature, and he might even get a date. But, if this tall guy does not respect women enough to be his best, the only women that he will be spending much time with are those with little self esteem.
Shorter men have a better understanding of how great it is to get to know a lovely woman. They are more likely to be the best they can be, and that a woman wants to feel respected as well as protected. These men are not lucky. They put effort into looking good, smelling good, dressing well, having the plans all in order for the date. They will even have a backup plan for the evening. Most of all, each such man will be attentive to his the needs of his date.
These are things all men should do. Some taller men, not all, will tend to try to get by on their physical stature. They may think that she is so attracted to him that it is not so important that he shower just before the date, or that it does not matter if he takes the trouble to pick up those flowers on the way to meet her.
Doing these things is not to compensate for being short. Every man has something to compensate for, but each has positive attributes as well. The trick for the short guy is to not let height take over psychologically. Most importantly, when it comes to everything else that can attract a woman, do not fall short.
They do have something, but it is not a secret. They have many things working in their favor, because they worked to make it that way. Just like all men, these apparently lucky short men know that all men have to deal with the same problems in finding dates. The only problem for some shorter men is that they think the problem of their height means it is harder for them to get dates.
These guys understand that their height is something that is not under their control. Each of these men knows that getting a date is about being the best man he can be.
This can actually be an advantage. A taller man tends to capture the glances of women when he walks into a room. He gets a lot of attention. As a result, he figures he does not have to concentrate on his other attributes. He might get to talk to a woman faster than a man of smaller stature, and he might even get a date. But, if this tall guy does not respect women enough to be his best, the only women that he will be spending much time with are those with little self esteem.
Shorter men have a better understanding of how great it is to get to know a lovely woman. They are more likely to be the best they can be, and that a woman wants to feel respected as well as protected. These men are not lucky. They put effort into looking good, smelling good, dressing well, having the plans all in order for the date. They will even have a backup plan for the evening. Most of all, each such man will be attentive to his the needs of his date.
These are things all men should do. Some taller men, not all, will tend to try to get by on their physical stature. They may think that she is so attracted to him that it is not so important that he shower just before the date, or that it does not matter if he takes the trouble to pick up those flowers on the way to meet her.
Doing these things is not to compensate for being short. Every man has something to compensate for, but each has positive attributes as well. The trick for the short guy is to not let height take over psychologically. Most importantly, when it comes to everything else that can attract a woman, do not fall short.
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