Saturday, September 3, 2011

Things to Avoid When Trying to Win Your Ex Back

By Alyssa Villame


When you are in love, surely you would do everything for the person you love. But what happens if you have decided to go separate ways? I bet that you will still try your best to get the person back if you still love him/her. There are some existing ways on how you can effectively win your love one back without overdoing the act or looking really crazy. Some of the things that you should really avoid doing if you want to have your ex back are discussed below.

1. Do not beg your ex to take you back. Just leave them alone and let them be. Accept the truth no matter how painful it is. Just simply accept the break up.

2. Never scout or stalk them. This only means that you should stop following them around or going to places they love to hang out with just so you can see what they have been doing.

3. One trying to get your ex back, never make them feel responsible about leaving you. Do not guilt-trip them by informing them that you cannot study because of them, acting like you are depressed or sick so that they will consider feeling sorry for you. Above all, never threat them that you are going to kill yourself if they will never come back.

4. Never use your money to have your ex back. Do not spend all your lifetime hard earned money just to make a fool of yourself in your struggle to win your ex. Showing your ex that you are willing spend big amount for them is good but do not really overdo it to the point that you are giving them chance to take advantage of you.

Break up is not really the end of everything. You can still try to reconstruct the relationship and begin over again. However, make sure that you are doing the right things on your quest to win back your ex for if you are doing any of the things stated above, now is the time to stop. You are going to push them even further from you rather than encourage them to come back to your arms.




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