Saturday, September 10, 2011

First Date Tips and Tricks

By Cenk Roycegar


Going out with a girl can be one of the most grown-up things a teen boy does in his life. You should really be at least 15 years old when you go on your first date. You may have plenty of doubts and questions bothering you like where to go on a first date, what to wear and the way to act. While on your first date, you can dress your age, but try to keep your dressing clean and tidy and wear clothes that are cosy and trendy as well.

Ask a girl out if you think you can have a good time with her. You need to feel at ease with the girl you are asking out, though it's not positively required that the first date must be super romantic in a Hollywood sense. It can just be a pleasant date with no strings attached. If you are awfully infatuated with the person, you can find out whether the girl is also enthusiastic about you. Try and date someone closer to your age when going on your first date.

It'd be a good idea to just be yourself and not try to hard to be cool or attempting to be some other person. Try hard not to show off and never come on too strong with the girl on your first date. Teenage dates are something more transient than mature or adult relations, so you can be relaxed and untroubled without worrying too much about the relationship. You can try out a first kiss on your first date, but do not stress about if it is awkward or not - it is most likely going to be clumsy anyhow. Because you are still a teenagers, you might feel awkward with a girl at the beginning and start wonder about her feelings.

Always offer to pay for the food or any other movie tickets and the like. Your date will respect and love you for it. Nevertheless if she insists, you can go Dutch with her paying for half the expenditure, but this may be done only once you've initially offered to pay for the entire outing. Be kind and alert to your date and don't just treat her like a sex object.

Try and listen to her and give her respect. Try to be chivalrous, which is extremely rare nowadays. You can open doors, carry books for her, present her with flowers and be respectful to her mum and dad while you greet them. Your first date is critical to you, so take these few tips, so you will have the best chance of having the perfect first date.




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